Insecurity in Relationships: Which European Singles Find Themselves Least Attractive (You’ll be Surprised!)

November 17, 2010 by fiona · 1 Comment
Filed under: Online Dating 

attractive-italian-women-confidentWhen we asked European singles from different countries some questions on confidence and assertiveness, the one thing we didn’t expect was high levels of insecurity in relationships in the responses from French singles. Surely, the French are hardly perceived as the most insecure Europeans when it comes to dating?

However, it seems that French singles may be suffering from insecurity in relationships. When completing the be2 personality test, French singles revealed that they score themselves lowest for attractiveness, compared to other nationalities and are less likely to express their feelings for someone they like, for fear of being rejected.

The most confident European singles are Italian women, who rate themselves the most attractive and are most likely to make the first move without any sign of insecurity in relationships.

How do we know about European singles’ insecurity in relationships?

All European singles that register with be2 complete the same science-based personality test. These answers allow be2 to provide a unique personality profile that helps the matching algorithm find other singles that are a good match.

One of the questions in the personality test asks singles to rate their own attractiveness:
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Another question asks users how likely they would be to make the first move:
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When you take the answers to both questions together and compare them by nation, the results are quite surprising.
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Asked how they rate their own attractiveness, Italian and Dutch singles have relatively high perceptions of their own attractiveness and women tend to have higher scores than men. Asked if they are prepared to make the first move, the sense of their own beauty does not always correlate with assertiveness.

However, there are some obvious parallels, with Italian singles in general rating themselves the most attractive and also scoring highly on assertiveness. Italian women, in particular, see themselves as the most beautiful and assertive European singles. So far, so true to stereotype.

attractive European singles But the results of French singles surprised us: French men were proportionally least assertive and confident in their and a quarter of all French men would not make the first move out of insecurity in relationships.

The great thing about science-based matchmaking? be2 finds the right partner for European singles based on these replies, so all singles are matched to partners that are well suited. And those singles who are worried about their insecurity in relationships can rely on the personality test result, personal introductions and tools like the internal messaging system and the ‘just ask’ quiz to make it easy to take the first step.

>>>Take the personality test free of charge now!

Single Women Seek… Attached Men

September 28, 2009 by fiona · Leave a Comment
Filed under: Love Science, Psychology 

It’s a truism among single women that all the best men are taken (or gay, but that’s a different matter). However, a new study on the factors that determine attraction indicates that it’s not so much the best men that are taken, but rather that the fact that men are taken makes single women thing they must be the best.

Confused? Well, the evidence the study produced is less than confusing:
184 heterosexual students, half of whom were single, participated in a study on sexual attraction and told the volunteers that a computer program would match them with an ideal partner. All the women in the study were shown the same photograph of a made-up „Mr. Right“ and all men were shown the same „Miss Perfect“. Now comes the interesting part – Read more

What do Beautiful Women see in Marylin Manson?

May 20, 2009 by fiona · 1 Comment
Filed under: Love Laughs 

Marylin Manson has managed to bed some very beautiful women: porcelain beauty Rose McGowan, burlesque superstar Dita von Teese and teenage actress Evan Rachel Wood are among the beautiful women wooed by… well, what exactly? His skinny body that rarely seems to see the light of day? His ghoulish makeup? Or is it his threats to throw knives at women’s private parts, voiced in a recent interview?

In the interview, Manson ponders his special charm that makes it so hard to keep women away from him.

“Maybe it’s because I’ve allowed my eyebrows to grow back,” he adds. “I think it makes me more cuddly, likeable and loveable. It means I can get away with saying the things I say more!”

So guys, you heard it: eyebrows! Grow them now, the ladies will love it and beautiful women will fall for you in droves. Yes, that’s probably it. That and the knife-throwing…

What Men Want, Think, Feel, Like… Find Out What Men Really Think About Love, Sex and Relationships

May 6, 2009 by fiona · Leave a Comment
Filed under: Love + Sex 

Every woman has probably asked herself what men want. Because if a woman wants to find herself a man (and even if not), a bit of inside information can’t hurt. For instance, what are these three men thinking (other than “man, do we look cool”)? Maybe the results of the askmen survey will help us find out what men want, think and feel…
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Of course the study deals with issues surrounding love, sex and relationships, but also lifestyle, work and money. Let’s take a look at some of the love, sex and relationship questions: Read more

Axe Effect Really Makes Men More Attractive?

March 16, 2009 by fiona · Leave a Comment
Filed under: Love Science 

attraktive-manner-duftenA scientific study claims to prove that the Axe effect really exists. In case you are not aware, the Axe effect is supposed to turn imbecile women into raging man-eaters. In the ads, these women chase an unattractive male whom they normally wouldn’t even touch with a pole, because he’s wearing Axe. Not the type of thing you see happening every day…

Of course, the study only managed to prove that women find it attractive when a man smells nice. Whether men smell nice when they douse themselves in Axe, you’ll have to decide for yourself. The results of the Axe effect study are after the jump. Read more

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